Love surely is the most beautiful feeling when you and your partner are in sync with each other. However, a date is more of an art that needs logic and flawlessness to make the other one happy. It is always considered that men take out women on dates (and not the other way round), so this piece of information is for men. You all must have heard a lot about what to do and how to make your date more memorable but this one would focus on mistakes that need to be avoided.
Mistakes? Do men make mistakes when it comes to planning a date?
Everyone makes mistakes and that’s how they learn to do things in a better way. However, if you get to have the cheat-sheet that would lay out all the mistakes, you would think about doing something twice to avoid the possible mistakes. Let us look at the mistakes that you need to be beware of while planning your next date.
1. Unconfidence: Oh yes! If you are not confident of anything or certain things about this date; it’ll show and it will ruin your date. Confidence in all the arrangements, the way you look, the way you talk, whether she’ll like it or not, and so many questions hamper your confidence. You just to take one step at a time and make sure there are no loopholes left for mistakes. When there are no mistakes, confidence automatically becomes a part of your personality. Take some time for yourself and be confident in whatever you do. Just be yourself and she’ll love you for that.
2. Tardy: When you have planned the date which makes you the host, DO NOT BE LATE. Even when your partner has made the arrangements, coming late shows rudeness and is considered as bad manners. Be on time or before time to check with the arrangements and cross check everything to be doubly sure. Coming early shows your excitement to be a part of the relationship. She’ll be delighted to see that you’ve come early just to receive her.
3. Boastful: When you are in love with someone, you won’t even know how time would fly and date would come to an end. If you truly want your partner to fall for you, make sure you do not boast about yourself or anything that you have. She is surely not interested in all that and wants just you. This would also be a turn off for her and you lose the chances of getting lucky after the date. Whether it showing off your new gadget or talking about how lavish your lifestyle is, boasting has never done good to anyone.
4. Dressed for everything rather than the occasion: This aspect is the most understated or even overused one when it comes to dating. The term “dressed for the occasion” is often taken way too seriously. Either guy would turn up looking like it’s their wedding or way too casual. In either scenario, it is not how should be dressed. Make it a task to choose your clothes that’ll enhance your personality. From your
men’s underwear (that provides comfort and support down) to your outfit, everything should be in sync.
5. It's all about you: When it is a date, it not all about you. Makes sure you let her express herself to you in order to make her feel comfortable and happy being around you. Just go with the flow, do not break conversations, do not pick up phone calls and do anything that makes her feel left out.
Do you agree with these mistakes? Do you any more inputs to make? Do let us know in the comments below.